Support for Avoidant/Restrictive Eating Patterns
ARFID Therapy in New york City for Adults and teens
Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID) is often misunderstood. It’s not about dieting, body image, or trying to control weight. ARFID is rooted in fear, overwhelm, sensory sensitivity, or past experiences that made eating feel unsafe or difficult. And while many people assume it’s “just picky eating,” ARFID can deeply impact daily life, physically, mentally, and socially.
Maybe eating feels stressful because certain textures make your body tense. Maybe you avoid entire categories of foods because swallowing feels overwhelming or scary. Maybe a past choking incident changed how you approach meals. Or maybe you’re tired of trying to explain to others why “just try it” isn’t helpful.
Whatever your experience looks like, you’re not alone, and therapy can help.
Understanding ARFID
ARFID shows up differently for everyone, but often includes experiences like:
intense fear of certain foods or textures
difficulty trying new or unfamiliar foods
anxiety at mealtimes or in social eating situations
avoidance related to past choking, nausea, or vomiting
eating only a narrow range of “safe foods”
low appetite or limited interest in food
physical symptoms due to limited nutrition
feeling embarrassed or misunderstood by others
You might find yourself planning your day around what foods will feel safe, worrying about travel or events, or feeling shame about how hard eating can be. ARFID can be isolating, not because you don’t want more freedom around food, but because your nervous system is doing everything it can to keep you safe.
Therapy helps by strengthening that sense of safety so food becomes less overwhelming and more manageable over time.
How ARFID Therapy Helps
At Thrope Therapy, we take a trauma-informed, sensory-aware, and compassionate approach to ARFID. We know your eating patterns are not a choice. They’re a response to fear, sensory overload, or past distress. Our work is never about forcing foods or pushing too fast.
Instead, we focus on:
✺ Building Safety and Reducing Anxiety
We help you understand your nervous system’s responses around food and develop tools to feel grounded and regulated during meals.
✺ Understanding the Roots of Avoidance
Whether your patterns come from sensory sensitivity, traumatic experiences, or low appetite, we explore what’s underneath your eating challenges with curiosity, not judgment.
✺ Expanding Your Window of Tolerance
With gentle, collaborative exposure-based approaches, we support you in slowly widening the range of foods that feel safe — at a pace that works for you.
✺ Strengthening Mind-Body Awareness
We help you reconnect with hunger cues, identify sensory preferences, and understand how your body communicates safety and discomfort.
✺ Supporting Daily Life
Together, we work on navigating social situations, travel, dining with others, and building routines that make meals feel more predictable and less stressful.
Healing from ARFID doesn’t happen through pressure — it happens through patience, understanding, and steady support.
Our Compassionate Team of therapists
What ARFID Therapy Looks Like
Your treatment plan is individualized based on your unique needs and history. Sessions may include:
sensory exploration and tolerance-building
gradual exposure exercises you help design
support around anxiety, trauma, or past aversive eating experiences
meal-time coping strategies
reframing shame and self-judgment
collaboration with dietitians or medical providers when helpful
Many clients begin to feel more confident approaching food, more open to new experiences, and more connected to their body’s needs.
Who We Help
We work with:
women, teens, and adults experiencing ARFID
individuals with long-term sensory eating patterns
people with anxiety related to choking, vomiting, or swallowing
clients who have been misunderstood or dismissed by past providers
those wanting more freedom, nourishment, and trust around food
You don’t have to navigate ARFID alone, and you don’t have to “fix it” all at once. Small steps create meaningful change.
A Gentle Step Toward Support
ARFID isn’t a failure on your part, it’s a response to fear, sensitivity, or overwhelm. With the right support, eating can feel safer, calmer, and more open.
Take the first step today. Schedule a free consultation call to learn how ARFID therapy can help you build trust, confidence, and comfort around food again.